Tips to boost your love and make it last.

If you want a love that will last forever, you must be ready to engage frequently in some activities that boosts your affection and that of your partner for each other. The problem it that, couples tends to forget many of these after some years of being together. The result then will be, drifting apart of those love birds. Stated here bellow are some of those tips that can help you boost your relationship without emptying your bank account.

Engage in special thing on regular basis; This is one of the key. If you have being together for a while and the life is fast becoming a routine, this may pose a dangerous trend for the future of the relationship.

Human being are configured to desire new thing, there is nobody who doesn’t appreciate a new thing. More so when it is even a positive new development. It may be as small as preparing a special meal, a little special gift etc. Such that you will have a way of looking forward to it, probably on weekly basis.

Teach your partner something you like; if your partner love you, pleasing you will make him/her feel more happy. Therefore, by teaching each other what you like will foster intimacy and deepen the love between both of you. ‘Because he/she will always want to do that very stuff just to satisfy you, and in turn both of you are satisfied at the end.

Learn his/her favourite sexual triggers; make it a point of duty to make your partner know that you have a lot of interest in his/her sexual pleasure. To this extent, you are willing to discover those things that make him/her to be turned on. You will be surprise the extent to which your partner will be happy to experiment with you. This will definitely make both of you happy and gives more bond to your relationship.

Find time to go out together; This one thing you likely do naturally when you first started. However, many tends to drop this as the relationship progresses. Going out together creates a lot of bond in a relationship, therefore it won’t be a good idea to drop such habbit. Going out doesn’t necessarily have to be very expensive. That is, you don’t necessarily have to empty your wallet for that if there is a cordial understanding. Common going out to have a gaze at nature sometimes may not even cost you anything extra, but it goes a long way in making both of you a happier person.

Things you need to know about Ebola Virus.

This may be a bit frightening, but it is something we all need to be aware of. I got this from a friend and 'feel it is important to let others be aware of it too.

It is no more news that Ebola virus has finally find its way to west Africa, and there is no cure for it, at least for now. The only thing we can do is to prevent trough proper awareness.

Below are some of the fact you need to know about this virus:

1. It is a Central African disease that has travelled over countries in a living host to West Africa. It is easily spread by physical contact and eating contaminated bush meat. Major hosts are in 5 species of Bats but monkeys and apes are easily infected and killed. 

2. It kills in a week, leaving no time to treat an individual

3. It has no known vaccine or cure

4. Known cases have been experienced recently in Guinea, Liberia and Central Africa Rep, spreading eastwards and westwards towards Nigeria. Death toll so far in West Africa is over 100.

5. The Ebola outbreak of 2014 is the most challenging one witnessed in Africa

What we can do?
1. Avoid eating any bush meat for now! Especially Apes and Bats
2. Wash your hands as regularly as possible, especially after shaking a stranger. It is spread by contact.
3. The most straightforward prevention method during Ebola outbreaks is not touching patients, their excretions, and body fluids, or possibly contaminated materials and utensils. Patients should be isolated, and medical staff should be trained and apply strict barrier nursing techniques (disposable face mask, gloves, goggles, and a gown at all times). Traditional burial rituals, especially those requiring embalming of bodies, should be discouraged or modified.
Awareness is key, don't just read or ignore...spread this campaign before the virus spreads!

Things You should know before buying insurance.

If you are a business person and you want your business to keep surviving even after you might have left this world. One of those things you can not afford to take off your plan is the insurance of your business. Nobody pray for bad occurrences, but if it happened, it can bring your business to a halt except you have an insurance cover. So also as it relates to our personal lives.

However, in buying insurance there are so many jargon that you will likely come across which makes it different from every other professional fields. That's why I called it "insurance jargon", some of which 'am going to explain here. You being a graduate of English language does not qualify your ability to understand some of this terms except you've gone for a special training in that regards.

Broker

This is the person that represent the insurance buyers, not a companies.

Beneficiary

This is the person named in a life insurance policy to receive the insurance proceeds at the death of the insured.

Depreciation

If you are accountant, this definition is similar to the usual one you might have known. It is the decrease in the value of an asset due to use, deterioration, or the passage of time.

Group insurance

This is a special insurance issued to an employer for benefit of employees  or to the members of an association.

Coinsurance

A clause or provision that requires the insured to share in a certain percentage of medical expenses such as 80/20 or 90/10(the insurance company pays 80%/90%; the insured pays 20%/10% of expenses), sometimes called co-insurance.

Health Maintenance organization(HMO)

An organization that provides a wide range of comprehensive health care services to member who prepay a fixed periodic fee for the service.

Automobile insurance

It is the type of insurance that pays for loss to individuals or property from an auto accident, theft, or other perils specified in the insurance contract.

Dividend

This is a return of part of the premium to the policy holders of insurance from a participating company when earnings exceed costs.

Actual cash value

A claim settlement method in which the insured receives payment based on the current replacement cost of damaged or lost item, less depreciation.

Accidental death and dismemberment insurance.

This is insurance that pays the insured in the event of death or loss of limb or eye resulting from an accident.

Simple Strategies to get job satisfaction.

I see so many people wake up in the morning to go out and do the job they are not really satisfied doing.  But just because, they want make end meet they must go out to do that very job they dislike. The effect is that, you end up not being able to perform at your maximum capacity. This is because of the fact that you are not satisfy with the way you are working or the job you are doing.
Even study has shown that majority of people that goes to work tends to develop a high blood pressure on Monday morning. The meaning of this is that working without job satisfaction can make somebody not to live long.
Hence, if you find yourself in this corner, going trough and implementing this can help you start enjoying your job. which in turns give you a healthy life.
1. Be punctual
Coming late to work has a way of disorganizing you either you believe it or not. If you are able to make it very early to work or any appointment related to your business, you will be at ease. You will be able to arrange things in order before the real action commence. This will smoothing your workflow and you make you perform better than somebody that didn't come on time. Coming late for job can make your workflow to be very untidy and ultimately affect your output in big term.
2. Develop good relationship with your colleagues
You are not an highland, so don't expect that you are going to work all alone. Good relationship at work helps a lot in making your work go as it ought to be. Your mind will be relaxed and you will be able to focus on the necessary things par time.
But now imagine you not be in a good relationship with the next person who is probably going to approve your work before sending it further. The thought of that alone can even make you to have an heart attack.
3. Be smart and presentable
There is a sayings that, "you will be addressed the way you dress" . Meaning, just as every other thing related to your job is important, it is equally important to come out on daily basis in a presentable manner.
Your dressing should portray that of somebody that really mean business. Customers will be more willing to do business with you when they see that you are looking like a real business person. They will be more confident that you know your game.
4. Set reasonable goals
 By setting goals for your self make you feel very good too. Guess somebody will ask me how? The fact that you set goals make you to have something you are working towards. Even of you now score fifty percent which is just half of the goal you set, you are likely going to feel better isn't it? Now imagine you being able to score hundred percent. You are definitely going to feel like a champion, and even love yourself more. Then when next you wake up to go to work, it will surely be with every enthusiasm.
5. Get involved with special things
You must not be comfortable with the normal routine, if you really want to be satisfy with your job. You have to be among the drivers of the new inventions at your place of work.
Know this, every human being get tired when it becomes as "usual" thing. That  is the way we were configured. We all like new things, new ideas, new way of making thing work better.
If you are to enjoy your job, you really have to get involve in making sure that things are done in a different manner from that of last year.
You will be surprise at how easy life could be at working place if you follow these steps.

Serious Relationship Lessons.

There are a lot of lesson to learn from this write-up, most especially to the young ladies out there who are always looking for already made guy. Guess what! it may never for you exist in reality. I pray that somebody will learn something as you read trough.

20 INTERESTING FACTS ABOUT DAVID AND FAITH OYEDEPO.

(A WOMAN THAT FEARETH THE LORD, SHE SHALL BE PRAISED!)
1. She met him at a Motor Park.
2. She was a university student-GREAT IFE while he was only a Polytechnic student in Kwarapoly (Remember the discrimination)-she could have Snubbed him-but she responded.
3. His friends complained that he was carrying Christianity too zealously as if he was the only christian-she became zealous.
4. He took her to church in 1976 and made her sign an agreement (SAILING UNDER SEALED ORDERS) to marry and follow him whether he becomes blind, lame or handicapped...she signed.
5. Just before he married her, he told her God had sent him to LIBERATE THE WORLD (while he was still hopping between jobs) and went on to resign his job; his elder brother lambasted him, she stuck to him.
6. He told her God had shown him the key to prosperity-she believed.
7. He told her they would build a 50,000 capacity tent and preach the gospel from private jets-she believed her dreamer lover.
8. He was too 'buoyant' to afford a hotel room on his wedding eve, he slept in his rickety volkswagen beetle-she married him.
9. During a moment of insane faith, he ordered a mad man to be put in his car alone with her while she was pregnant; she remained.
10. She saw she was dripping blood while pregnant and explained to him that she had a miscarriage, he shouted "It CANNOT Happen, Can I have my food please"-she served him food.
11. She just had their first baby and there was no food or money at home. he refused to borrow or ask or take church money and they were drinking/eating "CERELAC Baby food' for 3 days-she ate with him.
12. She came to church one day and saw him so excited with few members while waiting for service to start; he explained to her that service was actually over-she laughed.
13. People kept praying for her and her husband as they seemed to be crazy and needed deliverance-she kept faith.
14. He announced a new Bible school and she knew there was no facility; she asked him and he replied "Is it your school"? She kept quiet.

IT DOESN'T END THERE!
15. She didn't know they were going to be flying in customized jets round the world.
16. She didn't know he will pastor and she, co-pastor the largest church auditorium in the world.
17. She didn't know he will be a father to millions all over the world.
18. She didn't know he will be hosted by Presidents and Heads of States of nations.
19. She didn't know he will be a Chancellor and Pioneer of one of the best Private-owned Universities in the world.....and six others.
20. She woke up one day on her sickbed in the USA and unexpectedly saw her hubby who had flown in quietly from Nigeria and had refused to wake her up.....he was kneeling on the floor by her legs and crying 'Lord, heal her and prove that you sent me"-She got healed miraculously......TWICE!.
She didn't know ......
All she saw was a Man with A BIG GOD inside him.
Her name is "FAITH"

To my female friends out there note this:
"He Must Not Have Heaven And Earth Before You Say Yes To Him."
When The Focus Is Money, Fame And The Mundane Things Of This World...Enduring Instead Of Enjoying The Marriage Becomes Inevitable. Together, You Both Can Start A Life.
Never neglect the day of little beginning!
Receive Wisdom, in the mighty name of Jesus! (Amen)

 — with Roseangela Oweka.

Fifa world ranking

Fifa has just released the latest rank of the football playing countries in the whole world. 'think its interesting to see this new ranking even as the world cup approaches.
Imagine a team in number 45 of the latest ranking happened to be in the same group with a team in number 6. I think there is going to be a lot of surprises during this coming world cup.  Atlanta 96 Olympic is still very fresh in my memory and i know the situation can actually repeat itself. Football is full of surprises, and it will be very interesting to witness those surprises.
I also feel that this rating may not actually be enough for a team to start rejoicing about because it is only based on some past statistics, and we all knows that game changes. That's what even make football to be different and interesting out of all other game.
Anyway, lets just keep our fingers cross and watch events at it unfold.

How to cope with stress of managing business

We are living in the world were there are always too many thing to do in spite of our short time. Sometimes, the activity lined up are just too much that we find it difficult to manage. Even the emergence of the internet is not helping the matter in this aspect, as that as also create another challenge, a business owner now need more time to manage his business both offline and online platform. If you however find yourself in a situation like this, the following step will help you to cope with the stress involved in managing your business.
Planning
You should understand quite well that nothing will work outside planning. As you know that business running sometimes may be time consuming, and so you must really take your time to plan your activity into your little time. This also involved you knowing those areas you can delegate and those to personally handle by yourself.
Knowing this that if you fail to plan your timing you may soon realize that one aspect of your business will start suffering at the expense of other, meaning that you are not implementing your plan or not planning well enough.
Have a target.
There is need to have a target of what to want to achieve from all aspect of your business. target enables you to assess your performance on a regular basis, and be able to score yourself. Your target can be break down to weekly, monthly, quarterly or annually. If you target nothing, you are going to achieve just that nothing.
Avoid distraction as much as possible.
You may easily get carried away by the success record of your business if care is not taking, and before you know the distraction set in your way. So, take thing easy as they come. Celebrate your success and still try as much as possible to maintain your focus, and always remember that you have a target to meet up.

Can your educational qualification determine your life comfort?

I also got this write-up from a friend, and I love to share it here. Some of these issues are what I have tried to explain to my fellow youth in the past, but not so many people see the reason in it. I thank God I have someone who is reason in line with my thought now. so I feel it worth sharing, and I hope someone will learn a grate lesson here.

If you are a young African, you must listen to this message!!! Your academic education does not guarantee you life's comforts.

The days are now gone forever. The economy doesn't reflect skills in education. You assume well if I learn such and such which is harder than not learning it then I should get paid X amount. Wrong my friend!!! The problem is it doesn't matter how cool your skill is, if it isn't needed then it doesn't make money and you don't get a job. For example, there is no manufacturing in Nigeria. There are way too many lawyers, too many academics, etc. Knowledge does not equate to success or economics. That is one of the biggest myths in our society that-wealth comes from schooling and work. Wealth comes from work. Work doesn't come from schooling, it comes from a demand for it. It comes from a demand for the skill set and not everything academic translates to selling products.

For example you knowing history doesn't benefit someone else. Sure its vital, it is important in the long run that someone know history, but it doesn't have an immediate turn over monetarily. Does it help you understand politics, economics, culture etc sure, but that all has abstract value not monetary value. Can you smile and sell people food on a registrar? Well then that has a daily certain monetary value. People eat everyday. Education although it should be important and it is in its own right, does not reflect the needs of the consumerist society.

Being willing to work hard won't matter unless there is a place for you to work hard. If you look good you can make money as a stripper than teaching physics. Most of the economy isn't even tied to "work" at all. The majority of the money is all in "speculation" AKA gambling, making money from having money. And this is why the capital isn't out there to float more industries for more professional jobs and a higher quality of life across the board.

Go to college to learn about the world and personally enrich yourself, or to socialize. Do not go to college as a stepping stone into the job market because it won't work. Odds are, you'll just be in debt and know a bunch of stuff than no one cares about and half wouldn't even understand. When you do get a job after college its not because you went to college its because you stopped going to college and had to get a job and you will get it the same way you would have had you not gone to school. You get it for being able to do what you're told.

I would like to get rid of speculators completely. Money should be made by producing something or doing something tangible. I think if we could tax churches and close the stock market for a 2 months, we'd be the wealthiest nation in the world. And that's my two cents on that.

Just imagine if telling the truth paid. Make it happen and more of us would be doing that. But no, we work other jobs and do this second job for moral reasons at our own detriment. That's why people ask for donations, the corporate sponsors are not coming, not ever.

I could make more money from a book about wizards than I ever could from writing philosophy. That's the world we live in. Money is tied to the will of the lowest common denominator.

3 Questions that can strengthen your marriage.

I got this write-up from a friend, and I think it worth sharing. Enjoy the whole of it as you read trough, while you're also getting stronger in your relationship. May God bless you!
Scripture: But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not carry out the desires of the flesh. ” Galatians 5:16 How can you build a stronger marriage that ultimately glorifies God? This week’s questions will guide you toward a stronger godly marriage. And as today’s scripture tells us, it all starts with living in the power of the Holy Spirit.
1. ARE WE LOVINGLY HONEST WITH EACH OTHER? We are called to “speak the truth in love” and grow “in every way more and more like Christ.” (Ephesians 4:15). A healthy marriage is built on mutual trust. Dishonest actions such as keeping secrets, telling partial truths, or hiding information about finances or relationships can hurt your spouse. If you are concerned or hurt because of dishonesty in your marriage, use the example of Jesus to be lovingly honest with your spouse. Jesus often used scripture to speak the truth to others. Use scripture to remind your spouse of the covenant the two of you made before God and point out the expectations God has for each spouse. By doing this, you aren’t approaching your spouse with your emotions and accusing them, but you are approaching them with the word of God.
2. ARE WE FORGIVING EACH OTHER? In all close relationships, people will offend each other. But the Bible tells us to “make allowance for each other’s faults, and forgive anyone who offends you.” We must remember that the Lord forgave us, so we must forgive others. (Colossians 3:13) In strong marriages, forgiveness should be asked for and freely granted. We shouldn’t hold a grudge. Holding a grudge will quickly build an emotional wall between you and your spouse, and worse yet, it will invite Satan into your marriage (Ephesians 4:27)!
3. ARE WE DEFENDING EACH OTHER? Speaking badly of your spouse to others can hurt your spouse emotionally and have a negative impact on your relationship with them. Make it your goal never to insult, correct or humiliate your spouse in front of others. This is a direct violation of the commands to love and respect each other. If you must correct your mate, wait until later when you’re alone. In Matthew 18:15, Jesus says "If another believer sins against you, go privately and point out the offense.” Use this example in your marriage by pointing out an offense privately, not in front of other people. Your husband or wife should be able to trust you to be considerate of their feelings.