First and the most important reason for existence of marriage institution is for the purpose of companionship. This shows the reason why it is important for you find quality time to spend together with your partner. Aside from the fact that, getting enough time to spend together will go a long way in helping you to build intimacy in your marriage, it will also open up communication and strengthens your bond. You are even going to be using such avenue to indirectly provide a good example to your kids about what they should expect in their own relationships.
Unfortunately, the present world with its numerous challenges does not give enough room for couples to be able to have a regular time together. Let's consider a situation where both the husband and wife have to work late regularly in the office before coming back home at night, and 'still have to cope with the stress of taking care of the children. Of course, the obvious effect is that there will be less time to spend together, less communication in the marriage, less intimacy. All this can in turn lead to less happiness in the relationship. But to forestall all these, there are ways you can make the little time you spend together very interesting to the extent that both of you will always look forward to a repeat. Taking into consideration that you will not want to do what will affect the family budget, here are some of those cheap and ideas you can use to spend quality time together despite your busy schedules without breaking your bank account.
Repeat your first date.
You can remember how expectant you were during your first date. Why not pretend to have it new as if it is really fresh. Schedule your calendar and make the appointment look real and appealing to both of you. Make reservation and be sure that you dress very well to impress your partner, just like the first time you spent together. You also need to make sure that such date will not be an avenue where you will be discussing things that pertain to your office and other related pressure. Make it a day for you and your spouse only to really enjoy yourself.
Have a special night.
Just hearing this, you must have been thinking of the likely effect of a special dinner on the family budget, but this is what can be bring into your house to prevent unnecessary expenses. On days like these, you need to try and bathe your kids and put them to bed early if you have any.Then get yourself prepare for that special time you have been waiting for, go and wear that little dress you have not been wearing for some time now. You must have decided on the type of movie that will be suitable to both of you for that night, flipping through channels will not be the best option for such night. One more thing! A favourite bottle of wine will work magic, as you uncork your wine to create a special atmosphere even right in your own house.
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