I think this will sound a bit of funny to somebody. The next question you will probably want to ask is that, how will I marry somebody when I didn't love her? Its a sort of controversial, but the following are some of the reason why you don't have to get marry to somebody on the ground of romantic love you have for each other.
1. Love becloud sense of reasoning
The matter of marriage is not what we are to handle with a child's glove. It should be a decision well thought before entering into it. But in a situation where the party involve had already fall into romantic love far before the decision is taken, most issue that would have been critically well thought will just be overlook.
2. Love doesn't guarantee happiness in marriage
The fact that you fall into romance before getting married does not guaranteed that you are going to have a successful marriage life, except the necessary things to consider are first put into consideration. We often hear of relationship that started on a very good romantic note before marriage, but find it difficult to survive for just three month in the marriage. This happened because premarital romance is not a criterion for a successful marriage.
3. Love create vulnerability.
This is because, when you love before marriage, you are likely going to close your eye so many thing which may latter lead to emotional pain. You wont see the reason to test the character of the person, and most of the issue that you are suppose to have discuss and reach a reasonable conclusion are likely going to be overlook. some of which may later brake the marriage.
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